Friday, April 21, 2006

How to Deal With Bullies

Bullies usually are disliked by other people especially people who are the victims of the bullies. However, bullies are not born to be a bully. There must be some reasons why they turn into bullies and how to deal with them or how to help them to change into a good person again.

Most bullies usually have problems like afraid of something but do not want to show it to others. They try to act as if they are braver than others, behaving like they are stronger than others and looking down on them either by teasing them disturb them or try to land them into deep trouble.

Teachers should try to talk to bullies and try to solve their problem and try to stop them before they continue to bully again. However, if the bully refuses listen. Then, the teacher will have to punish him.

Friends who were victims of the bully bullied should also forgive and try to help them to change instead of thinking about taking revenge. Revenge is not sweet, and it is important to know that revenge will only cause you into deeper trouble, even if you are very angry with someone, as revenge is a bad thing and you will be in the wrong too.

Bullies once bullied me too, which was when I first came to this school. I tried to ignore the bully’s words hoping they would stop. However, the bully did not seem to give up on me but, not only did they bully me more, they also did unbearable things like poking a pen through my bread, pushing me around and worst of all, tell bad things about me to everyone.

When I could not take it, I decided report to the discipline teacher and let her handle the case. Soon, after the investigation and the confessions, the discipline master caned the bullies. After that, they did not dare to bully me again.

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